Ask yourself these questions:

Is your partner extremely controlling and jealous?

Does your partner prevent you from seeing family and friends?

Does your partner constantly criticize you and your abilities?

Does your partner threaten you or cause you to be afraid?

Does your partner hit, punch, slap, or kick you?

Has your partner ever prevented you from leaving the house, getting a job, or continuing your education?

Has your partner ever destroyed things you cared about?

Does your partner force you to have sex when you do not want to?